I Hope You Fall In Love

So I’ve done some serious mental gymnastics until I figured out a way back to get access to my Facebook account, can you imagine? last time I posted on that account was 2018 and I didn’t even access it in yearssssss…..

And I wanted to go there because, some songs popped up on auto play and it triggered sooo many nostalgic memories from my time in Italy in 2012, and I wanted to find pictures from that time and to write about it…

But this is not what this article will be about, while scrolling and laughing on what I used to post on my timeline (happy to report that I actually haven’t changed not physically and not personality wise….still as goofy as I was 10 years ago)..but this caught my attention 👇

And it actually made me smile….not because of anything written in it, but because of how much I matured.

You see, 10 years ago when I read that, I probably thought wow! that would be my dream relationship…now 10 years later and many failed love attempts, I’ve learned from experience what actually I want in a relationship and 90% of whats mentioned in the picture is irrelevant for me now.

I am very romantic, yes I know shocking! everyone gets shocked when I say that, but like why would I show you? like you as a friend of mine or a sibling or a relative, colleague, whatever….why would “YOU!” see that side of me? it’s so irrelevant and as I always say, I like to keep my private life…private.

So even the fact that I’m very romantic its something thats my own business, so I don’t need your validation on that, yes you can proceed in thinking that I’m just a sarcastic cold hearted bitch 🤷‍♀ I mean to be fair, for your placement in my life, I think I’ll always be that label above, so lets just stick to it 😂

Anyways back to my main point, I am still very romantic, and Rom-com is actually my favorite movie genre, like when i scroll on Netflix’s Romcom category, I HAVE SEEN 95% of it all! can you imagine!

so nothing have changed on that aspect….BUT! what changed is, my life experience.

I’ve experienced life as an adult (which that wasn’t the case when I reshared that note on Facebook 10 years ago, back then I was just starting my Adulthood).

I now know that what actually make me happy in a relationship is not the fluff above, I mean yeah its nice once in a while when it’s unexpected, but the lovey dovey stuff aren’t what make a strong foundation of a relationship AT ALL!

So I rewrote that note in my current 2026 Adult version

Written at 7:10 AM, 7/4/2026 — From my Favorite corner on a sofa which will no longer be mine in 3 hours

Peace out!